How can you get back with your partner? How can you make them see how great the two of you were together? This is your key to making up with them and healing your broken heart.
First of all, you have to recognize that whatever happened, you were both at fault. If you cheated, they probably weren’t giving you what you needed so you looked elsewhere. Or you may not have been giving them what they needed so they cheated on you. Yes, the cheater is basically accountable for the cheating. The pure blame does not with the person who was cheated on. Both parties should realize the fault lies with both of them.
Most important, you both need to forgive and forget. True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident. You never bring it up again. You must remember the past is the past and don’t let it cloud your relationship. If you cannot do this, you won’t be able to truly make up for a period of time.
If you were the person at fault, apologize – and mean it. It is not considerate to your partner if your apology is not meaningful and you end up doing it again. You have to commit to changing if you are going to say “I’m sorry”. Otherwise, you don’t mean it and you won’t get
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Be prepared to chase them a little bit. In order to make up you need to show them you are interested in making up, but that doesn’t mean stalking them or sending them hundreds of text messages. Just because you send out some signals that you would like to make up doesn’t mean they are going to come rushing back. You need to put your heart on the line and your ego in check.
You may have to settle for something less than you wanted. It may be that they are only ready to be friends when you want a full fledged partner. It might take awhile to build that trust up again. If this is the case, you need to give them the space they need to get to know you again. If you really want to make up you have to be willing to take what they are willing to give you.
Finally, you have to know when to give up on trying to get them back strategy and mend your broken heart. At times the best thing to do is move on. If your partner is unable to forgive you, you are in a position where the best thing you can do is move on and enter into new relationships. This may be the best thing to do even if it breaks your heart. Whatever went wrong in this relationship, your soul mate is still out there. Getting them back may stop you from meeting them!
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