Into Motivation

Do you feel the end of your relationship is in sight?In my opinion there always is a solution to a problem, so let’s get a solution for you.

Most people have been in this situation, so let us have a look at a very common case.You had a difficult day at work you get back to your girlfriend, want to relax and unwind. You get home and bam she erupts like a volcano full of emotion and she is furious.

So things go south, a lot of men have been in this situation, but what you do now will determine the outcome of your relationship. To avoid a total breakup it is vital that you start to understand your girlfriend to ensure that you have a wonderful relationship.

Let’s face it your girlfriend will not end your relationship simply because you left your dirty laundry lying around, there is reason behind the madness. So this just goes to show that you thought you knew the inns and outs of the female gender, but now your realize that you don’t understand them at all and how they function. Read on and get to know what a women really wants you to do.

1.Tell Her You Love Her

”I already did that when I took her to the movies and some coffee yesterday” Well, that won’t cut the deal.Unfortunately women don’t work that way. Certainly all the gifts and time you spend with them doesn’t go unnoticed, but the four letter word outplays these things.So you have to tell them that you love them vocally, they want to hear the words come out of your mouth.

The time you spend with her she appreciates, even the gifts, but if she doesn’t get told that she is loved she thinks your feelings towards her have changed. Your girlfriend wants to know that you love her but if you don’t she will start to wonder what is going on and if you still feel the same about her. Yes, if you neglected to tell her you love her then you shouldn’t be taken by surprise if she starts a serious discussion and has some issues.

As easy as 123, all you need to do is let her know that you love her. If you find it difficult to put it in

words then there are other ways and means to do it. Try it and you will see that this step will work wonders.

2.Listen To Her

You have something important that you want to get off your chest and you talk to your girlfriend only to find that when you stop talking she doesn’t even notice, you have been talking to the wall.How would you feel?Rejected? This is what so commonly happens when the girl talks the guy is thinking about his next game on the TV and pays no attention at all. That isn’t a difficult thing to do is it? Just pay attention and listen.If you feel the timing is bad just explain to her that you want to talk but in an hour or so.She shouldn’t mind, but then go to her and ask her what she wanted to talk about, don’t forget.

3.Just Be Honest

Everyone knows that honesty is a basic building block of any relationship. You must be able to apply this in your relationship, but be subtle. Don’t hurt her feelings when she asks you a question. Let’s just take an easy example, if she spent the whole day cooking for a romantic dinner and she asks you how the food was then don’t just tell her it was awful, rather say something like “You really outdid yourself honey I appreciate it, perhaps the steak had too much salt, but I really enjoyed it.”

If more serious questions get asked then don’t lie, be sensitive and solve the situation in a plausible way this will avoid any unnecessary fighting.Both partners have to be patient and keep a cool attitude; this will avoid frustration and tempers boiling.

The three steps I mention here are a good way to get things back on track.Apply them and things will get better.So if your girlfriend has a problem, then simply listen to her, be honest and tell her you love her.However don’t give up hope if your relationship has already ended and you simply can’t get the thought of: “I Want My Ex Back” out of your mind then please read the following: Win Your Ex Back.